Heart Soul Human

How to Breakthrough THE Biggest Problem in Relationships

November 17, 2020 Neil Disyamonthon & Zach Kaufman Episode 12
Heart Soul Human
How to Breakthrough THE Biggest Problem in Relationships
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Neil and Zach talk about the faults of the ways we are taught to love in our relationships. Learn about the healthiest ways you can show up while supporting individuality. Why is it important to open up your mind for yourself & others? Because the other side carries SO MUCH MORE than you can ever perceive in the present.

"Love wants what is best for you. It wants your love and it wants your freedom"

"Our agendas for people and our expectations of people really just highlight the places where we are in perceived lack than any deficit that has to do with those people in their truth
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"Your greatest strength is not even at its full potential… and that greatness inside of you is just what you can perceive in this moment
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  • Why the ways we’re taught to love aren’t always helpful. Moving beyond that opens doors for more because the truest love is about freedom & the expression of the other 5:38 
  • Moving beyond repeating patterns of validation in our relationships by holding boundaries & structure to not act out of our own need for comfort & control 10:21
  • Finding and meeting the needs of both people in each present moment and coming together in that 15:38
  • We are built to become the innate expression of our soul. A parent’s job is to encourage that unique expression through structures and frameworks that free the Self 19:24
  • The best thing we can do to support people and improve any connection is encourage the very best authentic expression of them self that allows them to thrive 22:22
  • What we seek for others shows we we desire for ourselves 24:11
  • How much validation do we need? We often seek quantity, not quality, to continue to feed our own needs and fulfillment 25:33
  • “Open up your mind to the things that could be better than you imagine and don’t reject the things that align themselves on your path…don’t push away the possibility that things could be great” 30:47
  • “Your greatest strength is not even at its full potential…and there’s more beyond that, that’s just the ceiling that you can see, you haven’t even seen the sky beyond it” 36:52
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Credits
Music-Max Van Soest @ max_fly5
Cover Artwork-Kelsey Glass @ k.divine.glass

Contact
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Why the ways we’re taught to love aren’t always helpful
Moving beyond repeating patterns of validation in our relationships
Finding and meeting the needs of both people in each present moment
A parent’s job is to encourage the unique expression of the Self
Supporting and improving any connection by encouraging people to thrive
What we seek for others shows what we desire for ourselves
How much validation do we really need?
Don’t push away the possibility that things could be great
Your greatest strength is not even at its full potential...and that's just what you can perceive